"Here's where she meets Prince Charming, but she won't discover it's him till chapter three"

I've always put in so much thought about this. What if we've already met the one we're to be destined with for a lifetime, but haven't seen it? What if they're just waiting for us to realize? What if we're blinded by this so called love? What will it take to bring us to this realization? How will we even know? What will it feel like?