Is it really possible, that exruciating emotions for love can just subside?

Now I'm not going to write some sappy ass love post about you, but it would be nice to get some sort of recognition for what I can do with the feelings that still remain. Even with Yanyan by my side, I still resort to overlooking you somehow. I live in great dissension for the existence of these remaining thoughts of you and it burdens me so much. I'd just like to let you know in case you read this and assume it's for you. For once, just go away. Give me an answer so I can be content with what I'm supposed to be doing will you? Forget? How much time will this take?